All About Becca Tilley, Hayley Kiyoko’s Fiancée

Hayley Kiyoko is officially engaged to her girlfriend of seven years, Becca Tilley. On July 10, Kiyoko posted a photo carousel of the beach proposal on Instagram with the caption, “My dream girl said yes to forever…” Kiyoko proposed to Tilley with a custom cushion-cut diamond ring from Ring Concierge.

“Designing Becca’s dream ring with Hayley was such a full-circle moment,” Nicole Wegman, the founder and CEO of Ring Concierge, said in a press release, per People. “I’ve known Becca for years, so when Hayley came to us, it felt especially meaningful to help her design the perfect ring, one that truly captured their love story.”

Ahead, get to know Kiyoko’s fiancée.

Tilley, 36, is best known for appearing on ABC’s The Bachelor. She was a contestant on the 19th and 20th seasons. She’s now the host of the pop culture podcast Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad, which has won two People’s Choice Awards for Best Pop Podcast.

According to People, the couple first met in 2018 at Kiyoko’s album release party for her debut LP, Expectations. Tilley preferred to keep their budding relationship private, though, telling Entertainment Tonight, “My last relationship with Robert [Graham, another Bachelor alum] was very public, and it made it very hard once we broke up, just the pressure of it. And I decided with this one, that I didn’t want that. So I just have kept it private until I don’t want to anymore.”

But at the time, she did share that meeting Kiyoko at her party was love at first sight. “I think it was just an instant connection,” she recalled. “I’ve never had something so instant, like, from the beginning.”

In May 2022, Tilley hard-launched her relationship with Kiyoko by posting a sweet Instagram video of the couple. She captioned it, “hard to say if this is a hard or soft launch, but it is a launch ❤️.”